dog-play - update from Frost
Hello there
I have been scanning the forum but been busy lately.
anyways, I finally got the chainlink fence 5ft tall done for the backyard (about 70x40feet). Now that I am sure he is not going to run away while zooming, I am quite relaxed. Frost checked out the fence - he has almost forgotten that there was electirc fence before - he does sometime chase the ball all the way to the fence and sometimes stops 3-4 feet early as if there was a fence and he remembers the shock - intelligent guy - Hope he gets over it.
I also got neighbor's Pom to play with Frost. Biy he had a blast. But I am little bit concerned with his behavior. So here it goes -
while playing and chasing he seems to pin the other dog (about 11 Mo - male) to the ground and is grunting all the time. He does not bite the other dog but seems more aggressive. I am there to separate them out if Ithink the other dog is getting wrong end of the stick. Only once ot twice other dog chased Frost.
I have got the dog over 3 times now for 15 minutes. - boy he is so quiet after the play at home!
Am I overreacting? Shall I invite a bigger dog to play with Frost so that Frost "canbe shown/taught manners". I have found a shiba owner nearby and I am planning to invite them over.
So please give me some pointers about dog-to-dog play rules, warning signs etc.
I took couple of photos while they were playing - very hard to do that - I will post them
I have been scanning the forum but been busy lately.
anyways, I finally got the chainlink fence 5ft tall done for the backyard (about 70x40feet). Now that I am sure he is not going to run away while zooming, I am quite relaxed. Frost checked out the fence - he has almost forgotten that there was electirc fence before - he does sometime chase the ball all the way to the fence and sometimes stops 3-4 feet early as if there was a fence and he remembers the shock - intelligent guy - Hope he gets over it.
I also got neighbor's Pom to play with Frost. Biy he had a blast. But I am little bit concerned with his behavior. So here it goes -
while playing and chasing he seems to pin the other dog (about 11 Mo - male) to the ground and is grunting all the time. He does not bite the other dog but seems more aggressive. I am there to separate them out if Ithink the other dog is getting wrong end of the stick. Only once ot twice other dog chased Frost.
I have got the dog over 3 times now for 15 minutes. - boy he is so quiet after the play at home!
Am I overreacting? Shall I invite a bigger dog to play with Frost so that Frost "canbe shown/taught manners". I have found a shiba owner nearby and I am planning to invite them over.
So please give me some pointers about dog-to-dog play rules, warning signs etc.
I took couple of photos while they were playing - very hard to do that - I will post them
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Inviting a bigger dog over would still be beneficial though. Socialization is key ~
How much older and/or socialized is the Pom?
Shiba play style can get hectic or appear "aggressive" or "dominant" but it is all just play.
Esp. since Frost is inhibiting his bite, he probably wasn't crossing any boundaries for the Pom. Perhaps another dog couldn't have taken to being pinned the whole time, but all dogs and their play styles are somewhat different.
If you are worried about his particular method of play, perhaps taking him to a social situation with different types of dogs would do him and you some good?
I'll only use my videos, they aren't a perfect example - do you see how 'forceful' their play-style is?
**Also, I notice that Kitsu the red (and Hachi the b&t) will be pinned a lot by Tsuki the cream, but she is rarely ever happy about being pinned during play and will not put up with it, she is usually the pinner, not the pinnee.
The Shbia play style takes some getting used to (by you and Front's play buddies). But once you have gotten over the "Oh crap they are fighting" response, its actually fascinating to watch. :-)
A good rule of thumb, if one dog is trying to get away and is being forced into border areas such as a fence or starts looking away or hiding under chairs etc it is time to stop. Also If the avoider is sitting down a lot or trying to move off to higher ground it is also good indicator it's time to stop. Boxing among shibas is not a good sign and usually indicates a fight will ensue. Some unsocialized Shibas stalk other dogs and ambush from behind not a good sign. Most dogs that are friendly will start play with a play bow and a visual cue to begin the antics.
My dogs do not play as rough as Jen's cream. Mine are more like Hachi, they take only so much and say enough. They are 6 yrs old and older though so all the puppy antics are beneath them and they only tolerate so much.
For young dogs I limit the sessions to 10 or 15 minutes on general principals since they don't know when to quit.I will walk and train in between and if the pups are good then they get another play session. Some dogs if they are left to play too long and are only dogs, tend to get really sore if left to their own devises. Throwing pups together in the back yard for an hour at at time I think is way too long. Usually the dominant dog takes advantage and it plucks the patiences of the others. As pups they need to learn some self control so the limited sessions are a good way to regroup and bring things back down to a sane level.
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Next time I go to class, I'll tell those two dog owners to get on this forum. Everyone has been invaluable in giving me advice on the nihon ken.
Thanks,
Jesse