Where to put my puppy when I go to work?
Hi everyone. As I am on a quest to learn as much as I can, so I can be the best prepared for when I get my Shikoku. My best friend just got a new German Shepherd the 2 days ago. At the current time hes laid off from work cause he had some medical problems. But any ways its working out for him cause now he has all this time to spend with the pup. Last night he came and picked me up(no car at the moment). Its only aboout a 30 mins drive from his house to mine. So he was gone for about an hour total, and when we got back his wife told us she had to go and get a pair of pants my friend had worn yesterday. She placed them next to the puppy to calm her down, because she was freaking out the my friend wasnt there.
Which made me think about when I get my pup, and spending time with it. At my current job I'm at. I work between 9.5 to 12 hours a day and its a 45 min ride to and from work, if theres no traffic. I know that I wont be able to leave the puppy home alone for that whole time by it self, nor would it be fair to the pup.
So this lead me to ask how much time if any should you take off from work to be home with the pup?
At what age is it okay to leave the pup at home for the day/how many hours should you leave them alone for?
At what age is good for them to start doggie day care, and is it okay if they spend the whole day there multiple times a week?
All of the doggie day cares that I have looked at that are close to me close before i get out of work. Should i spend the extra money to keep some at the place to wait for me?
Last one for right now I swear. Would it be okay if I took my pup and brought it over my best friend's house for the day. Like i said earlyer he has a German Shepard he just got and she'll be over 2 years old by the time I get my pup. I already plan on bring my pup over there a bunch when she gets older.
Thank you all for the help. and sorry if the post is long and theres already one like this. I've been going thru the achives but haven't found one on this yet. Thank you all again for helping me be a much informed as possble about this amazing dog.
Which made me think about when I get my pup, and spending time with it. At my current job I'm at. I work between 9.5 to 12 hours a day and its a 45 min ride to and from work, if theres no traffic. I know that I wont be able to leave the puppy home alone for that whole time by it self, nor would it be fair to the pup.
So this lead me to ask how much time if any should you take off from work to be home with the pup?
At what age is it okay to leave the pup at home for the day/how many hours should you leave them alone for?
At what age is good for them to start doggie day care, and is it okay if they spend the whole day there multiple times a week?
All of the doggie day cares that I have looked at that are close to me close before i get out of work. Should i spend the extra money to keep some at the place to wait for me?
Last one for right now I swear. Would it be okay if I took my pup and brought it over my best friend's house for the day. Like i said earlyer he has a German Shepard he just got and she'll be over 2 years old by the time I get my pup. I already plan on bring my pup over there a bunch when she gets older.
Thank you all for the help. and sorry if the post is long and theres already one like this. I've been going thru the achives but haven't found one on this yet. Thank you all again for helping me be a much informed as possble about this amazing dog.
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I could not leave him home, crated, for longer than 8-10 hours until he was close to 1 year of age, he couldn't hold it longer than that. Every dog is different though.
I would take a few days off work to bond with your puppy. When I got News he was 7 months old. I tethered him to me(leash to my belt loop) and had him with me around the house everywhere I went for about a week, fed him from my hand, moved his crate next to my bed and basically had him stick to me like glue.
A dog, particularly a puppy, is a HUGE commitment. Much akin to raising a child.
Let's say hypothetically, you work a 10 hour shift + 2 hours driving. That's 12 hours that you are away from your pup. In that time your pup must be walked, at least twice, for 45minutes-1 hour each day. [ Especially in an energetic breed like a Shikoku , note I say at LEAST ] as well as Fed & Watered twice a day. Bare mind at the puppy stage you'll be feeding 3 times a day & taking the pup out to do his business when he wakes up, every time after he eats, & before he sleeps, if that. [ probably more ] Counter in playing with the pup, training with the pup, YOU sleeping, YOU eating, &/or hanging out with your friends...I don't think it'll be physically possible, at least without your pup suffering from severe separation anxiety &/or other health & mental issues from lack of exercise & stimulation.
Plus, keeping a dog created for more than a 4-5hours a day on a regular basis is very cruel. Can you imagine if you were locked up in your room only allowed out of it to use the bathroom? That is how your dog will feel. [ only worse, remember, dogs are sensitive creatures ]
To be honest, if you are leaving your pup at your friends house / at day car / hiring someone to watch him...then who will really be raising your pup? When will you have time to enjoy him?
I'm sorry, if this is something you are only going to do once a week...it's understandable. But if this is your regular job that you go to four / five days out of a week, I do not think your lifestyle allows you to have a dog, especially a breed like the Shikoku. [ who requires heavy socialization, constant attention, obedience, & much exercise. They are a working breed, after all. ]
As I said before, I don't want you to feel like I'm attacking you, I just want you to look at the facts objectively. There are 24 hours in a day, & you will be gone for [ at a minimum ] 12 hours a day, calculate 8 hours sleeping, & that brings you down to 4 left for your pup. If you're working in the day, your pup is not going to be able to just walk & play at night...after all, that's when they sleep.
If anything, I highly urge you to contact Katja [ of Akashima ] or Peggy [ of Ikon ] & they can assist you more on this matter.
If you have any more questions, please let us know. We're all here to help each other & give our honest advice. ~
As for time spent with your pup, just spending time with them won't make them happy. Its what you do with that time that makes them happy. Being a graduate student, I can (and frequently do) work from home. Even though I'm sometimes with my dogs for 24 hours a day, if I'm really busy and sitting at my computer for 18 of those hours they aren't getting any benefit out of it. Spending fewer hours with them doing something like taking a long walk or some sort of positive reinforcement training will serve you much better than just being around them for a longer period of time.
I have to agree with Osy though, your current setup of being gone for 12 hours a day is not conducive to raising a happy, healthy, well adjusted, and closely bonded puppy.