# Dilemma on Dog Bite

My gentle Jazz has bit my nephew. My brother just called me to tell me about it. Jazz was sleeping on my bed, Michael went in, pounced on the bed really close to her, startled her, and she snapped him in the face. My brother tells me that it was above his eye - he can see 2 very small puncture mark…

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## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-28T16:13:21.000Z
My gentle Jazz has bit my nephew. My brother just called me to tell me about it. Jazz was sleeping on my bed, Michael went in, pounced on the bed really close to her, startled her, and she snapped him in the face. My brother tells me that it was above his eye - he can see 2 very small puncture marks from Jazz's canine teeth and that's it. He has cleaned the marks (he said there was maybe 2 drops of blood on one mark and none on the other) and put wound care on it, has it iced down, and is watching it. Steve doesn't feel it warrants a trip to the doctor, but Michael goes to his mom's this weekend. Steve said he plans to call her about it and he doesn't feel it will be an issue as Michael has been bit before by her mom's dog. Anything you guys think I need to prepare for?

## brandon_w (admin) · 2008-05-28T16:17:47.000Z
Prepare a lecture for your nephew on the phrase "let sleeping dogs lie". If your brother is cool with it, and he doesn't need to go to the hospital things should be ok. Maybe his Mom might call and ream you out? I guess it depends on what type of person she is.

## Leonberger (admin) · 2008-05-28T16:18:15.000Z
Sh!t, that sucks. Although I (and I'm sure everyone here) understand where it came from, most people won't. I don't know the people involved, nor the laws around there, so I can't be of much help. But I've seen the pics you posted of Jazz interacting with humans and I refuse to believe that she would do such a thing out of nowhere, which isn't even the case here. Edit: I was writing this as Brandon posted. His idea of the lecture is very good!

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-28T16:23:03.000Z
My nephew is high-energy and we've talked multiple times about not jumping on to the bed and startling Jazz, he just seems to forget. I'm hoping this will be a big lesson to him. I'm not sure about my ex-sister-in-law. We didn't get along when we were in school together, much less when she married my brother. It all depends on her mood - I'll know more when I can see the place on his face to know whether I should be that concerned. When Steve first called me, I was imagining a skin flap, etc. Jazz is a sweet soul, but she mos def doesn't view Michael as being higher than her in the family pack. I don't think that was part of this. Michael will be attending training classes with me & Jazz beginning June 5.

## zoiegirl · 2008-05-28T16:27:25.000Z
Just hope his mom doesnt freak out. Just in case she does you might want to make sure you have Jazz's vet records thats would be for an over reaction but if sounds like it'll turn out ok.

## scarlet · 2008-05-28T16:35:36.000Z
Ouch LJ. I agree with everyone else regarding we know where it came from. I'm afraid the ex is gonna determine the outcome.

## Romi (admin) · 2008-05-28T16:36:38.000Z
I hope everything works out and his mom doesn't go crazy on you. Good Luck !

## _dlroberts · 2008-05-28T16:47:52.000Z
Awww, I'm sorry LJ. That's just unfortunate. Sounds like things will be stressful for a little while but you'll come through it, I'm sure.

## tsukitsune (moderator) · 2008-05-28T16:48:44.000Z
thats too bad.. but it happens! Kids make some dogs uncomfortable and bam - you've got a bite from an otherwise great dog. definitely make sure you have all of Jazz's UTD records on hand in case the news isn't taken all that well with the ex! And talk to that boy!! Maybe now that this has happened he will be ready to learn his lesson! How old is Michael? This past weekend I gave my 'be respectful to a dog or get a band aid' lecture to my 5 year old godson who did very well with our newest scaredy shiba dog.

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-28T17:05:28.000Z
I told Steve to go ahead and pull Jazz most recent records from her binder and make copies. This way, if necessary, I'll have them on hand. Michael is 9 and has trouble remembering/focusing. We can go over things multiple times, but... For now, Michael is banned from my room. While that's where Jazz is, it's also where the largest TV and the laptop is - according to Steve, Michael understands (at the moment) that Jazz reacted to the situation naturally and not because Jazz doesn't like Michael. I'm grateful that my brother is a calm one and not prone to freaking out about stuff. Michael has had the talk before - one of the reasons (size) we went with a shiba had to do with Michael. He has a fear of large dogs and I wanted to help him overcome the fear. He once ran from my youngest brother's dogs (Doberman, Spitz, and Samoyed) and they pinned him. All they did was lick him, but it freaked him out - we've been working on that ever since.

## ivanmeza03 · 2008-05-28T18:40:54.000Z
wow!!! thats exactly what Avy did with my cousin!!! Avy was sleeping on my bed, and my cousin told that he just wanted to praise her and BAMG! Oo

## brada1878 (admin) · 2008-05-28T19:32:01.000Z
That really sux LJ! I am late to this but I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry. I'm sure it will be ok, but I am sure it is pretty stressful. ----

## okiron · 2008-05-28T20:58:28.000Z
Aww I'm sorry LJ, good luck with your ex-SIL. Wasn't Jazz's fault.

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-29T10:32:55.000Z
Thanks so much for all the encouraging remarks - I spent last night sitting with Michael and Jazz. Talking with Michael about what happened & how it happened & why it happened. The marks on Michael's face aren't too bad, but they are a little deeper than what my brother described. This morning there was just a little bit of bruising (logical - there are a lot of blood vessels around the eyes), but no swelling, puffiness, or tenderness. Jazz seemed very depressed when I got home - she lifted her tail, but no wagging. By the end of the night, she was still not her usual self but was better. This morning she was back to shiba-normal.

## _dlroberts · 2008-05-29T11:35:49.000Z
I'm so glad Jazz was back to normal this morning and that Michael's face really isn't that bad. How'd his mom take it?

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-29T11:43:22.000Z
Not great, but not bad. She wants to give her own opinion about whether he should go on to the doctor, but can't be bothered about it until Friday afternoon (when she picks him up for his normal visitation). By then, I'm hoping the slight bruising will be mostly gone. She reacts to some things way over the top and others as though they are insignificant. Obviously, I'm hoping for a low-key response.

## scarlet · 2008-05-29T14:18:55.000Z
You are handling the entire situation the best anyone could. What is Matthew saying? Miss Jazzy knew that something went terribly wrong but certainly glad she is back to her Jazzy self. That's a positive. Sounds like if the Ex wanted to make a big deal out of it, she would have drove immediately to pick him up and/or drop by to see for herself. Everything will be fine and lots of lessons learned.

## scarlet · 2008-05-29T14:23:28.000Z
Sorry, guess I'm just not good at remembering people names... What is Michael saying? :-)

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-29T14:50:02.000Z
Michael is fine and understands he was at fault - when I got home last night, he apologized for breaking the rules of jumping onto my bed. The ex will make just as big of a deal on Friday - if she decides to put on a show. I have long learned not to make assumptions on how she will react to different situations. I think we'll be good though.

## zoiegirl · 2008-05-29T15:44:31.000Z
Glad it didnt blow up or at least wont till friday if it does, hopefully it'll be healed by then. Thats good that Michael learned and apologized hopefully it wont happen again.

## diggah · 2008-05-29T16:40:15.000Z
Sounds like it's time to teach your nephew the “five little monkeys” song. Mama called the doctor and the doctor said, "No more monkeys jumping on the bed!"

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-29T17:12:04.000Z
I know, I know - in his room, there are two beds - we put them on opposite sides of the room to keep the jumping from happening - I never thought he'd try to jump onto mine.

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-31T12:50:02.000Z
Just an update - Michael's mom picked him up yesterday without a word about the bite. Totally unconcerned. Thanks everyone for the encouraging remarks and for helping to calm my fears.

## okiron · 2008-05-31T20:04:56.000Z
Well that's good news :)

## JessicaRabbit (admin) · 2008-05-31T21:52:35.000Z
Great news for you and your pup. Kinda yucky news for the kid that his mom kinda sounds like a jerk.

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-31T21:54:10.000Z
I know - as I tell people, there is a reason my brother has full custody.

## JessicaRabbit (admin) · 2008-05-31T21:55:25.000Z
well that is cool at least. I'm glad there was no drama,

## ljowen123 (moderator) · 2008-05-31T21:58:08.000Z
me, too - I kept waiting for a phone call from my brother telling me they had gone to the ER - Friday was stressful for that reason alone.

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