Just gotta vent...

edited March 2009 in General
We as a family decided two things. That we would get a Shiba Inu puppy from an area breeder who is very reputable. That's gone great, we're happy with her, and are excited to get the news at any time that the puppies have dropped.

On the other side, we also decided that we would open our home and hearts to a dog in need of a home. I feel really strongly that while going through a breeder is indeed my preferred way of getting a dog, I can't ignore the millions of dogs that just want/need a second...sometimes third or fourth chance to have a family of their own.

So, we find a dog in our area who needs just that, a home. We visit with the dog...she's great, with the kids, I put her through some paces, observe her and she shows no food or dog agression. great. We have a home visit, excellent home, large over sized fully fenced yard, experience as a dog owner and as an added bonus, I've got years of training experience and a professional trainer I can call in as needed. In addition, we were able to supply numerous professional and personal references.

We haven't heard a word. I sent a follow up email, and still nothing. Meanwhile, this poor dogs sits in a kennel. Granted I've never gone through a rescue, but it just seems to me very odd that you have a family who is ready, able, and willing to provide a dog with a wonderful home and you leave them hanging....I just don't get it. We've searched Petfinder's and have contacted a few rescue groups, but currently there isn't any other match out there right now...

Having never done a rescue before, is it normal to do a home visit and then not follow up with the family to let them know either way if they are suitable or not??

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  • edited November -1
    They may be waiting on some of your references. That is normally the only reason I don't get back to someone.
  • edited November -1
    Actually, that's the other problem...we contacted all our refrences, and they haven't called anyone. My partners boss (they wanted to verify employment), our pet sitter of 8 years, and two co-workers we've known for five years...
  • edited November -1
    I don't think there's any reason why they wouldn't contact you. Perhaps they're really busy at the moment and haven't got around to the next step (contacting your references).
  • edited November -1
    Sometimes rescues are a little overwhelmed and take time to do things. Just keep your chin up! Im sure everything will work out!
  • edited November -1
    Okay....thak you though for letting me vent! :) I think most of it has to do with the fact that I've got a 7 year old who is beside herself and begging me let her see Rita again....and I just don't know what to tell her...except that Rita will go where she is meant to go and that will be to a forever home where she is loved.
  • edited November -1
    Honestly, if you haven't already put that into an email (the part about your 7 year old), I know that my shelter wants the dogs to go to homes that really want the dog. So enthusiasm isn't a bad thing.

    I also know my shelter is not great about getting back to people in a timely fashion. I admit that there are times that I am not as prompt with emails as I would like to be.

    You obviously sound like a great candidate. So the only reason I could see them giving Rita to anyone else would be that they are an incredible candidate. Like for instance if Victoria Stillwell swept in and wanted to adopt her.

    I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
  • edited November -1
    hopefully they get back to ya soon! things gets pretty hectic in the shelters, so hopefully they are just too busy to get back to you in a timely fashion.
    its great that youre taking in dogs who need a home/help! good luck tho, hope u hear from them soon!
  • edited November -1
    LOL!! Well, even I would be thrilled if Victoria swept in! Thanks for the support, I will see this through cos I really do want to give a dog a second chance :)
  • edited November -1
    Sometimes you have to be patient (LOL).
    Snf
  • edited November -1
    hmmm i can understand what you mean about rescues... i think they are great ideas but me and several of my family members have had difficulty in ever getting responses from several different groups of them. it got to the point where we just had to go with breeders instead. but we couldn't be happier with our pups so it turned out alright.
  • edited November -1
    Hey congrats! I'm glad this worked out for you! I've had good luck (Westie, Patterdale Terrier) and bad luck (Norwegian Elkhound) with rescue organizations. While I am sympathetic to their struggles and I don't claim to have all the solutions, sometimes it seems that they shoot themselves in the foot. I know they want to place dogs appropriately but in some cases, I think it would be easier to adopt a human!

    I was interested in a 4-5 year old Norwegian Elkhound neutered male. He was described as energetic, crafty, 'talkative', and destructive. Sounded to me like a hunting spitz with not enough to do! I visited him and volunteered to take him for walks etc. His social skills with other dogs were acceptable and I knew that the Trio wouldn't have an issue with him (He passed the 'Tuli-test' and the boys don't particularly care that much.) I failed as a candidate and was DENIED because (1) I didn't have an adequately fenced yard (I live in a townhouse). Ummm even if I had a large, adequately fenced yard I would NOT rely on it for sufficient dog exercise. (2) My other male dogs were not castrated. Ummm because I show them and the judge expects the testicles to be there!?!?!?!

    Soooo, he was returned TWICE and then an Elkhound purebred rescue thankfully stepped in and picked him up. I think of him often and hope he landed on his feet in a decent home that understood his needs. He was a neat fellow.
  • edited November -1
    LOL!! You gotta wonder sometimes....hmm...person who shows their dogs would be my first clue, this is a person who knows how to care for an animal!

    In our case, I was surprised to see on Petfinder that they declared Rita un-suitable for placement in a home w/ kids. My kids played non-stop w/ this dog for over an hour and half and was even corrected by my 7 year old and immediately responded to her command...not that I'm complaining, but I wonder how many people passed her up because she was noted as un-suitable for kids.

    If anything, I realize now that rescues are truly trying to do right by dogs, but are in a constant battle of numbers...sooo many dogs, so few homes. This was my wake up call, and I will be actively trying to do what I can to help out...if I can't adopt, I certainly can foster or just pass the word around when I see a dog in need of a new home. We, as a family, are going to also visit shelters more and visit with the animals...
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